Questions planners ask.

They also record how and when they arrive and where they are staying. They can choose to be shown other guests arriving around the same time, and to connect with them. A shared album opens when the celebrations begin.

Both invitations have to have opted in. From there it is the same arrival airport, station or port, the same arrival date, and arrival times within a set window, three hours by default, or setting off from the same town, airport, station or port at a similar time. Each invitation is shown its closest matches, up to a set number. Where they are staying orders the list; it never creates a match on its own. Invitations driving the whole way are matched only where that setting is on.

Their own list: names, invitations, who is in each party, each person’s reply, their email address and their invitation code, a WhatsApp number where one was given, a cot or high chair asked for, and the questions each invitation asked. Where the wedding asks, each person’s choice of dish and which celebrations they will be at. They also see the postal address each invitation is posted to, where one was given, and can correct it. The arrival picture counts the invitations that are coming and have shared their journey, by place, day and time of day, and each line of it opens onto the invitations it counts, by name.

Close to the day, also how a flight they gave is running and which celebrations it may make them late for. If they picked the place from the search or the planner’s own list, it appears on the map. Without that agreement, the arrival picture still shows, by name, how and where each invitation arrives, on which day and at what time of day. Its stay is only counted in its area, never named. Two more things each need their own agreement: what each person needs to eat, and what a household needs to get around.

For their arrival and stay it is one tap, and the planner goes back to what needs no agreement, with their arrival still counted in the arrival picture. For what they need to eat or to get around, they switch it off and tap Stop and delete, and everything recorded is deleted.

Each person’s reply and party size, the postal address each invitation is posted to, and the code and link that open each invitation’s page. Where an invitation is staying, only if it has agreed to show them. Whether it has shared its journey, but not what it says. Which invitations were matched and which chose to travel together, and in general terms why. That an invitation has noted what it needs to get around, but never what it is. That an invitation has asked for a cot or a high chair. In the album, every photograph a guest shares with them, which they can remove, download and share.

Journey and matching details are deleted within thirty days after the wedding ends. What guests need to eat or to get around is deleted the day after it ends. Names, contact details and replies go six months after. The album and its photographs go 12 months after. The full notice guests agree to is shown to them inside the platform.